RelationshipsTrust Issues
#RI-69ba77fe·6 months ago·
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“Lost trust in fiancée due to repeated lies and secrecy”
What Actually Happened
Fiancée lied about past and kept in touch with ex, causing me to lose trust and feel anxious and insecure
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known about her past and her relationship with her ex before getting engaged"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and open with your partner from the start, and don't ignore red flags."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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