RelationshipsLoneliness
#RI-6a6b03a3·9 months ago·
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“Considering divorce after 9 years of marriage”
What Actually Happened
I've been profoundly lonely in my marriage for years, lacking intimacy and feeling desired.
What I wish I knew
"My husband's lack of romance and affection was a deal-breaker from the start."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your needs and boundaries clearly, and don't settle for a loveless relationship."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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