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#RI-6aeaade9·3 months ago·
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Lookback: almost 3 years

“Living with girlfriend's family”

I worry she won't contribute to household chores and cooking, making me feel like I'll do all the work in our future home

What I wish I knew
"Whether she'll change her habits when we have our own home"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your expectations and concerns with your partner early on"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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