Relationshipscommunication
#RI-6a6b037d·9 months ago·
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“letting go of hurt feelings”
What Actually Happened
Fiancé didn't plan birthday due to considering proposal a gift
What I wish I knew
"thoughtfulness matters more than expensive gifts"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate expectations and appreciate small gestures"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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