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anxious-avoidant paradoxunwanted pregnancy
#RI-69a91c0f·3 months ago·
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kept re-engaging with him despite red flags

I felt like I was dying inside due to his inconsistent behavior

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he was not capable of a committed relationship"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't settle for someone who doesn't want a committed relationship"
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High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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