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#RI-6a6b04f6·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 3 months into engagement

Moved in with fiancé despite reservations

Fiancé repeatedly initiates physical contact despite my clear boundaries, leading to regretful actions

What I wish I knew
"Set clear boundaries and communicated them more effectively"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't ignore red flags for the sake of a relationship"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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