RelationshipsSecrets
#RI-6a7aab76·9 months ago·
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“kept secret about dad's infidelity”
What Actually Happened
Saw evidence of dad's infidelity, chose not to tell mom. Later, mom found out on her own. We're okay now, but it affected our relationship.
What I wish I knew
"Being honest with mom might have led to a better outcome."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider the potential consequences of keeping secrets, even if you think you're protecting someone."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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