What Actually Happened
My ex-wife abruptly ended our 15-year marriage via phone call after 'chatting' with a coworker on Snapchat, then moved in with him less than a month later, leaving me feeling lost, in disbelief, angry, empty, and like garbage
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew she was unhappy and planning to leave, so I could have prepared myself"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't rush into dating apps or relationships before you're ready, and surround yourself with a strong support system"
Regret Score
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
infidelity Category Average
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Impact
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Financial and Psychosocial impact distributions for this subset.
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