LifestyleNarcissistic abuse
#RI-69ba7b93·6 months ago·
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“Jumped into therapy immediately”
What Actually Happened
My ex-wife abruptly ended our 15-year marriage via phone call after 'chatting' with a coworker on Snapchat, then moved in with him less than a month later, leaving me feeling lost, in disbelief, angry, empty, and like garbage
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew she was unhappy and planning to leave, so I could have prepared myself"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't rush into dating apps or relationships before you're ready, and surround yourself with a strong support system"
Regret Index
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Lifestyle Category
2,331
Lifestyle decisions logged. Avg regret 5.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
44%
of Lifestyle decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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