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#RI-69a9139b·2 months ago·
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Going to couples counseling to fix 10-year relationship

Started recording conversations due to husband's non-stop ranting, felt betrayed by therapist's reaction

What I wish I knew
"Therapist's impartiality before committing"
If I could tell you one thing
"Choose a therapist who will address both partners' issues equally"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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