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#RI-6a7aaaee·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 8 weeks after discovering his infidelity

Had an emotional affair 2.5 years ago

My husband left me after discovering his infidelity during pregnancy

What I wish I knew
"To be more vigilant and trust my instincts"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't ignore your gut feelings and be honest with yourself"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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