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#RI-69f86866·5 months ago·
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“Befriending a woman who showed many red flags.”
What Actually Happened
I befriended a woman who then acted inappropriately and flirtatiously with my husband on multiple occasions. I eventually had to block her completely after she stripped in front of him.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had realized that her having no friends was a major red flag from the beginning."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Listen to your gut and your true friends; if someone shows you red flags, believe them."
Regret Index
7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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