Relationshipsfriendship
#RI-6a7aaa84·5 months ago·
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“dated a guy despite red flags”
What Actually Happened
He distanced himself, gave vague excuses, and moved his ex back in days later
What I wish I knew
"he was still in contact with his ex"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"be cautious of gaslighting and false hope"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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