“I stayed in a long-distance relationship despite feeling unloved and prioritized”

Item: I stayed in a long-distance relationship despite feeling unloved and prioritized
Rating: 2
Author: u_Ecstatic_Current_701

What Actually Happened

I feel lonely, disconnected, and unsure if I'm asking for too much or ignoring red flags

What I wish I knew

"I wish I knew if he truly cared about me or was just using me"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Don't ignore your feelings and red flags in a relationship"

Regret Index

8/10

Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.

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relationship Category

743

relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

73%

of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.