relationshipComplicated Friendship
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29 days ago
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"I'm developing feelings for my boyfriend's best friend"
What Actually Happened
I've been noticing my boyfriend's best friend, H, and I find him attractive, but I'm dating his best friend and don't want to ruin their friendship or my relationship
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had been more aware of my feelings earlier"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and your partner about your feelings, even if they're complicated"
Regret Score
5/10
Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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Impact
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