What Actually Happened
I was trapped in a toxic marriage with a narcissistic partner who controlled me financially and emotionally. He was a heavy gambler who hid it from me and took control of my paycheck. He isolated me from family and friends and made me feel worthless.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had recognized the signs of abuse sooner and left him sooner"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't stay in an abusive relationship, no matter how hard it is to leave. You deserve to be happy and safe."
Regret Score
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Impact
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