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#RI-69a911ee·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 1.5 years into our relationship

I checked my boyfriend's browser history without permission

I discovered he looks up random women on Facebook, which makes me feel uncomfortable

What I wish I knew
"Whether this behavior is normal or a sign of a deeper issue"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and boundaries"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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