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RelationshipSpouse's Transition
#RI-6ab5f770·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 weeks post partum

“Husband came out as trans”

Husband revealed his transition plans while I'm post partum

What I wish I knew
"Timing of revelation was not more considerate"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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