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#RI-6aeab064·4 months ago·
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Lookback: During divorce proceedings

“Disclose husband's trans status to lawyer”

Husband's behavior worsened after hormones, causing relationship issues

What I wish I knew
"Husband's behavior issues predated trans status"
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider the impact on children before disclosing trans status"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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