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#RI-69ba76e4·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 8 years of marriage

husband makes jokes about boyfriend

husband's comments make me feel uneasy and like he doesn't trust me

What I wish I knew
"how to alleviate his past suspicions"
If I could tell you one thing
"clearly communicate your feelings and boundaries"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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