Relationshipsinfidelity
#RI-6a7aa8ff·4 months ago·
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“filed for divorce after discovering wife's infidelity”
What Actually Happened
My wife cheated on me during our marriage and I caught her. I told her I wanted closure, and she apologized and accepted responsibility. She agreed to make the divorce process easy and not contest any assets.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known she was cheating sooner, so I could have ended things sooner and saved myself the emotional pain."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't stay in a relationship where your partner is cheating on you, it's not worth the pain and heartache."
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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