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#RI-6aa8c385·6 months ago·
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“Spent anniversary with friend instead of wife”
What Actually Happened
My husband chose to spend our 10th anniversary with his friend over me, leaving me feeling unimportant on a special day.
What I wish I knew
"That my feelings would be hurt and that I needed to communicate them clearly"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and priorities."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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