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#RI-6a6b0782·7 months ago·
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“Expected anniversary plans”
What Actually Happened
I felt hurt when he didn't plan anything for our anniversary, despite my efforts to make it special.
What I wish I knew
"He could have made an effort to celebrate with me on the actual day."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about what matters to you in your relationship."
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationship Category
743
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
14%
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