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RelationshipTrust Issues
#RI-6aec00f8·15 days ago·
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“trusted partner with hidden finances”

Girlfriend hid $20k from me, making me feel betrayed and taken advantage of

What I wish I knew
"she would be honest about her finances"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about money and finances in a relationship"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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