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RelationshipHonesty
#RI-6ac3a668·about 1 month ago·
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Lookback: After 2 weeks of processing the news

“Kept fertility test results secret from fiancée”

Discovered mosaic genetic condition making me functionally infertile, struggled with the news

What I wish I knew
"How to have this conversation with my fiancée"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with your partner about sensitive topics, even if it's difficult"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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