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DatingUnsettling Behavior
#RI-6ad1a27f·about 1 month ago·
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“Dated someone with a hidden spreadsheet about me”

Found a spreadsheet about me on his phone with ratings and notes

What I wish I knew
"He was secretly tracking me"
If I could tell you one thing
"Trust your instincts and don't ignore red flags"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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Dating Category
77
Dating decisions logged. Avg regret 6.1/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
45%
of Dating decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.