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#RI-6acb0a3f·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 8 months into the relationship

“trusted girlfriend's birth control plan”

girlfriend hid birth control stoppage, blamed me for not noticing

What I wish I knew
"she would communicate about birth control"
If I could tell you one thing
"communicate openly with partner about birth control"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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