“Hid contact with ex despite clear communication about transparency”

Item: Hid contact with ex despite clear communication about transparency
Rating: 2
Author: u_Unlikely_Gate_6124

What Actually Happened

Found hidden texts from ex, felt betrayed and hurt

What I wish I knew

"Communicate openly about past relationships"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Be honest and transparent in relationships"

Regret Index

8/10

Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.

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Relationships Category

3,331

Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

69%

of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.