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#RI-69ba7747·4 months ago·
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He wants sex, but acts possessive

He freaks out when I leave or decline intimacy, asks if I'm seeing others

What I wish I knew
"He's not just looking for casual sex"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and communicate them effectively"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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