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#RI-6ad98bb9·4 months ago·
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“Expressed preferences about appearance”
What Actually Happened
Boyfriend frequently comments on and presses down my hair, making me feel unaccepted
What I wish I knew
"He would respect my choices and not voice preferences"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and avoid expressing preferences about appearance"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
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