relationshipCommunication
#RI-69a91369·2 months ago·
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“Going on a 2-night boys trip with friends”
What Actually Happened
My wife felt I prioritized friends' needs over hers, causing tension
What I wish I knew
"To consider her workload and stress before planning the trip"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate with your partner about your plans and their impact on them"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationship Category
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relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
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