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relationalFinancial Concerns
#RI-69f87137·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 year after moving in together

I worry about my girlfriend's fiscal responsibility

I feel like I'm doing all the financial heavy lifting in our relationship

What I wish I knew
"How to communicate my concerns without being controlling"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear financial expectations and boundaries with your partner"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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