“Cheated on me after 3 years”

Item: Cheated on me after 3 years
Rating: 0
Author: u/Popular_Rich_9077

What Actually Happened

My girlfriend of nearly three years admitted to cheating on me yesterday, after I spent six bands on an engagement ring.

What I wish I knew

"I wish I knew she had feelings for him for a while."

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Trust your instincts and don't ignore red flags."

Regret Index

10/10

High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.

SettledMixedSevere

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Relationship Category

370

Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

73%

of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.