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#RI-6a6b03a0·9 months ago·
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Lookback: 5 months into relationship

“Inviting girlfriend to friends' birthday party”

Inviting girlfriend to friends' birthday party made me feel guilty and led to a conflict with her

What I wish I knew
"Considered my girlfriend's social preferences and boundaries before inviting her to social events"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate with your partner about your social needs and boundaries to avoid conflicts"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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