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#RI-6af1e224·3 months ago·
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“Agreed to cooking lessons from future MIL”

Future MIL insisted on cooking lessons as a condition for marriage, felt uncomfortable and imposed upon

What I wish I knew
"Communicate boundaries clearly before marriage"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear expectations with in-laws and don't compromise on personal boundaries"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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