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#RI-6a6b078e·7 months ago·
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“Being friends with exes while in a relationship”
What Actually Happened
My boyfriend is uncomfortable with me being friends with people I've dated, even if I've set clear boundaries.
What I wish I knew
"He needs to work on his own insecurities rather than controlling my relationships."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your boundaries and needs."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
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relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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