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#RI-6a6b040f·7 months ago·
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Lookback: the past year

I pursued casual intimacy with my best friend

We had a close friendship that turned into casual intimacy, but I'm unsure if she feels the same way

What I wish I knew
"how she truly feels about me"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and your feelings, and respect the boundaries of others"
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5/10
Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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friendship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
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