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FriendshipSurprise Visit
#RI-6aafb9f0·3 months ago·
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Friend dropped by unannounced, asked for help

Friend visited, asked for help with baby shower gift, left immediately

What I wish I knew
"She planned to leave quickly"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate plans and respect others' time"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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