RelationshipsSurprise Visit
#RI-6aafb9f0·5 months ago·
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“Friend dropped by unannounced, asked for help”
What Actually Happened
Friend visited, asked for help with baby shower gift, left immediately
What I wish I knew
"She planned to leave quickly"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate plans and respect others' time"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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