FinanceDivorce
#RI-6aa8c48f·6 months ago·
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“Sent emotionally loaded text message at 11pm”
What Actually Happened
Wrote a text that cost $450 an hour in lawyer fees and colored custody conversation for months
What I wish I knew
"Screen messages are subpoenaable"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Think before hitting send, ask if you'd want a judge to read it out loud"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Finance Category
2,949
Finance decisions logged. Avg regret 4.9/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
36%
of Finance decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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