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relationshipsEmotional Neglect
#RI-6a6b0767·7 months ago·
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Lookback: A few months before the wedding

Engaged to someone I wasn't emotionally expressive with

I neglected my partner's emotional needs, assuming love was understood instead of shown, which led to her emotional disconnection and the end of our engagement

What I wish I knew
"Emotional connection is crucial in a relationship, and neglecting it can have severe consequences"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and consistently with your partner, and be aware of their emotional needs"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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