RelationshipCommunication
#RI-6abf9a49·5 months ago·
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“I've been supporting us financially while my girlfriend doesn't work.”
What Actually Happened
I feel resentful and stressed due to my girlfriend's lack of effort in getting a job or building a future with me.
What I wish I knew
"How to effectively communicate my emotions and needs to my girlfriend without making her feel attacked."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and open with your partner about your feelings and needs, and try to understand their perspective as well."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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