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#RI-6ae9e356·17 days ago·
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“Refused to send money to brother”

Parents treated me differently due to my responsible behavior, expected me to be self-sufficient, and judged me for needing help

What I wish I knew
"Parents would support me equally regardless of my behavior"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't assume responsibility means you're alone in needing help"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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