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Helping my mom financially after her divorce

My mom's financial situation is terrible after her divorce, and I'm struggling to help her without enabling her

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known how to set boundaries and encourage her to take initiative"
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek professional help and set clear boundaries to avoid enabling others"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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