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#RI-6addde84·30 days ago·
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Lookback: 5 years in relationship

“Finding others attractive causes guilt”

Feel guilty when thinking another woman is attractive

What I wish I knew
"Her views on attraction are non-negotiable"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate attraction openly to avoid guilt"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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