RelationalChildhood
#RI-6af14c1e·3 months ago·
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“joined the military”
What Actually Happened
My 4 year old son doesn't want to talk to me anymore after I joined the military.
What I wish I knew
"phases are normal, but harder to experience"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Prepare for the emotional impact on children"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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Relational Category
13
Relational decisions logged. Avg regret 8.4/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
85%
of Relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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