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friendshipUncertain Feelings
#RI-69ba79fa·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 year after meeting

Falling in love with a friend

Met in high school, became close friends after break-up, developed romantic feelings

What I wish I knew
"Watched for signs of romantic interest before acting"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate feelings openly and honestly, respect the other person's boundaries"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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