RelationshipsLack of effort
#RI-69aa85e4·5 months ago·
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“Expecting more effort in long-term relationship”
What Actually Happened
Boyfriend neglected me on special occasions, gave gifts to family instead
What I wish I knew
"Signs of lack of effort in relationships are often ignored until it's too late"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your needs and expectations"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
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