relationalghosting
#RI-69a9145b·2 months ago·
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“Expected more open communication from someone who values it”
What Actually Happened
She ghosted me after I showed affection and asked her to be my valentine, then grew colder days later
What I wish I knew
"She wasn't ready for a relationship or wasn't interested in me"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of people who say they value communication but don't follow through"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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