Relationshipsinfidelity
#RI-6aaf5d98·7 months ago·
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“Telling friend group about ex wife's infidelity”
What Actually Happened
Ex wife cheated with a close mutual friend, causing emotional distress and mental health concerns
What I wish I knew
"More about ex friend's mental health and addiction before agreeing to keep it a secret"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and others, even if it's hard"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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