RelationshipToxic Relationship
#RI-6ae5d365·about 2 months ago·
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“Ending a 5-year toxic relationship”
What Actually Happened
I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, but he's always been hot and cold. I've tried to make it work, but his inconsistency, lack of effort, and poor communication have taken a toll on me.
What I wish I knew
"I should've left sooner"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't settle for someone who doesn't make an effort in the relationship."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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