RelationshipLong-term
#RI-6ae1738d·4 months ago·
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“End a 4-year relationship with a live-in girlfriend”
What Actually Happened
Lived with girlfriend for 4 years, but realized compatibility issues and felt suffocated by her lack of contribution and dependency on me
What I wish I knew
"Communicate my feelings and concerns earlier"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and direct when ending a relationship, consider the impact on all parties involved"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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